Advice is Just Advice
Often times I use to find myself getting very irritated with my friends and family. They would come to me for advice time and time again, and never take it! They would still find themselves in the same situations over and over again. As I got older I had to begin to realize, that advice is just advice. Its never a for sure or certain thing. You can't tell somebody exactly what to do, when to do, and how to do it. Just like myself, people ultimately have to form their own decisions. Just you can give your opinion on which direction they should go and which move they should make, but ultimately people have to do what they find best suiting for their lives. And even deeper than the best decision for their lives, also what they are ready to do. Sometimes we know that we need to leave that guys alone, but we're just not ready. Sometimes we know we need to quit that job, but we're just not ready. People have to do things on their own time in their own way. And we just have to hope and pray that in due time everything falls into place for them just as it should. But I will say, I try to steer very clear of trying to shove my opinion down anyways throat. That will only push them away further. Letting people make their own minds up on their own time is always the best way.