Have you ever wondered what words are used when your name is brought up in a room? Like what words would be used as your identifier? What might people mention of me when I am not around? I have never really care much about these questions, except for the people that I love. If you have never had a real conversation with me before, I don't expect you to have much to say, let alone accurate. But the people who know me and love me, I hold to a high standard. It is an absolute must to surround yourself with people who will always defend your honor. Even if the world is against you, you have to know that they will not bow out or fold. It is the easiest thing in the world to go with the wave, and go with whatever the crowd is saying, but you cannot give in. If something does not sound right to me or people are saying false truths, I don't care if it is coming out of the presidents mouth, if its not right its not right. People who really love you should never join in the shaming of your name or character. And in my eyes, silence is the same as joining. if you are not part of the solution, you are a part of the problem. Again and again is say, be very aware of who you are surrounding yourself with. Pay attention when they speak on other people that they "love." If they will bash them to you, they will bash you to others. Then there are those who play both sides. Keep a close eye for those people as well. Make sure you really love and trust the people that you open up to. Some people truly want to help you. Unfortunately though, others just simply want to know your business.