Realizing What's in Front of You
One thing that I have come to realize, is that sometimes it does not matter how great you are. I could be the best friend, I could be the best girlfriend, I could be the best employee, I could be the best ANYTHING. The thing that is going to make all the difference, is a person realizing what they have in front of them. I could do every single thing right and be the best thing to ever happen to someone, but if they do not realize what is in front of them, it will all go in vain. If a person does not realize the value that you add, your absence will not matter. I have also realized that it is not my job to make them see. I have found that we women have the tendency of driving ourselves insane trying to show and prove. We so badly want to be kept. We so badly want to be needed. We so badly want to be loved. I am now only making it my job to be myself, the best version of myself. I will not force anyone to see what they have chosen to neglect. I will not force anyone to see my worth, value my worth or appreciate my worth. I will simply, in my truest fashion, remove myself from the situation. There is a certain level of urgency that comes along with someone who sees your worth. There is a certain fire to keep it alive and well, to grow and advance it. When these things die out or never happens, it lets me know what I am dealing with. Always have had an admiration for those who appreciate the things that they have, while they have them. Give me my roses while I'm still here so that I can smell them.