I am a firm believer in energy. I feel very responsible for the thing s that happen to me and around me. I am very aware that some things you will have no control over, but a lot, if not most things I do. The people I attract, the situation I attract, the attention I attract. All these things play a significant factor in the functions of my life. If I am constantly attracting negative people or negative predicaments, I will eventually have to look at myself. I ask myself what kind of energy am I giving out that are egging these situations on. Who am I that negative people think that they can come, and stick around. Who am I that when my name is brought up, all the commentary is negative? We all give off energies to one another that let us know the things that we can and cannot do. I have noticed that certain men will not even approach certain women, because she gives off the energy of a boss and the essence of a queen. Can be intimidating to some. If I want positive things to happen to me and good people around me, its as simple as being that myself. I cannot give off the energy that I am accepting of drama filled karma and unstable people. If I want someone to respect me for my mind, I cannot present them with my body. The type of energy I give off will have everything to do with who is in m life and the things that I face. Of course not 100% of the time, but a good majority. You cannot control the things that happen to you, but you can control the way you react.